Yasmeen Baloch
Choosing a lifestyle of your interest is like injecting thousands of pleasures in your life in an early stage to get rid of worries in future. Most of the students either commit suicide or give up in the mid of their semesters which keep the whole family members in a daze. There are many people who are very successful in their careers but still search happiness. The problem with our students is that they start thinking of their career when they have done their matriculation or most of them choose their career according to their parents.
The real pleasure of our future depends on our lifestyle. We give more importance to our careers rather than choosing our lifestyle. We forget the basic step of our success and jump directly to our dreams that further leads us to dissatisfaction. Many students fail in exams and tests because they give no.1 priority to their career and in future they face many problems and become compel to live a hectic life.
In our societies, it is a slogan that for spending a successful life we have to work harder for choosing a good career, but without choosing a lifestyle of your interest and without the interest of the field of your interest. It is quite difficult to choose a career. The students are always told to work harder which also a false vision is shown to them. The students with smart work always become more successful. Smart work develops interest and interest develops life style then you get the tact to choose your life style.
At the time of admission to a new college or university 99% of the students don’t like to go in classes. They fail in competitions and completing their assignments with innovative points. There are doctors, engineers, teachers, clerks who perform their duties but take their jobs for granted. They are found dejected and slowly start going towards calamities and depressions. The word “Happiness” is as if deleted or snatched from their lives. They show tumult behaviors to their family members and such issues hinder them to adjust time for their families. They are distressed nonetheless they go to work for compulsion.
The biggest odious problem that the students deal with is the compliances of their parents. For the purpose of their future wishes, they compel their children to follow their onus. In order not to disappoint their parents, they don’t reject their orders. Besides it, there is no one for career counselling of youth. They go with the unwanted wishes and step in the world of a fallacious future. Instead of asking their children of their dreams they start investing money on them without knowing the fact that they are unhappy with their decision.
Scope is one of the most sensitive issue of our careers. Before choosing a career we start finding people who are successful around us with a great scope. Then we emulate him/her, though their life style is different. We can develop scope with our interest .There are thousands of jobs that are suitable for our lifestyle but we become copy-cats and start destroying our lives with our own hands. We follow those pioneers who have set their life style and chosen their careers but due to lack of guidance we don’t think of our lifestyles and choose the career that our relatives have selected and they are successful.
Students sacrifice their wishes and connive with their other fellows to destroy their future. They sacrifice their wishes and dreams in searching a career that is not suitable for their life style, they want to spend a simple and happy life but they choose a vital career. This results in dissatisfaction and a worrisome life. People who have chosen their life style before their careers are complacent and happy. Most of the students quit education because of a vague decision. Sometimes they quiet education due to finance and choose a career according to it but we should look our economy first before choosing our career and lifestyle. Many parents send their children to Lahore, Islamabad and foreign countries for higher education but they get news of their failure which distress all of the members of the family and parents blame their children instead of accepting their mistake.
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